Jewish people, amirite?

  This tone is a major turn off, but, I have to admit, I'm intrigued...

Red flag

  As soon as he asked me where I was born and raised, I knew this was going nowhere good.

And it didn't - he immediately starts manplaining winter to me, even though I told him I moved from Syracuse, New York.

 When I said I was familiar with winter, I didn't hear from him again. Which is fine.

Caution

  I'm such a bitch, I know, but I find all these guys so annoying. He's being so cautious - what "comfort" level does he need to have dinner with somebody??? (Also, read my profile!)

Thoughts as a result of Ethics course

 Socrates suggests that “no one errs willingly,” meaning that bad behavior results from a lack of knowledge, not moral weakness - if a person really knows what the right thing is, there is nothing to prevent them from doing it. But we can think of so many examples of people knowing the right thing to do and still doing the wrong thing. (Obviously I am thinking of my ex as case in point.)

I was coincidently watching the American Crime: Impeachment miniseries wherein I was reminded how reckless and self-defeating Clinton's behavior was. In one scene, he tells HIllary, everything good in my life came from our being together (not a quote but that's the basic idea). But even though that is objectively true and even though he genuinely believes it, he still did absolutely everything he could to destroy that relationship and treat her like shit.

What is with this?

 We made the date several days before and then, the day of, he canceled. IKR means "I know, right?" Like it's funny.  

The last time this happened, I gave the guy a break and then, when I asked if he wanted to reschedule, he blocked me. So I wasn't in the mood to give this guy the benefit of the doubt, even though he tried to reschedule with me. I just don't think someone who cancels at the last minute to do something else is gonna end up being somebody who treats you with respect.  

smh

 

Fem and sexy? This isn't heading anywhere good....yep, as expected: